God's Sovereignty in the Midst of Life's Struggles

I was recently in a discussion on Facebook dealing with God's sovereignty. In it I was accused of being one of Job's friends, acting as a lousy comforter. I won't deny that I was a lousy comforter because I was in no way trying to be one. I didn't realize that the person with whom I was engaging was currently suffering. When I read what was stated, I simply saw an argument for a certain view of God's sovereignty, one that I couldn't rectify with clear statements regarding God's sovereignty in Scripture. My Reformed understanding is often considered cold by those of a different view, so again, it doesn't surprise me that my interlocutor felt like I was a terrible comforter. Many folks don't see how a Reformed understanding can bring comfort in times of evil or peril. The truth is though, it is only a Reformed understanding that can bring me peace in my current circumstances. To allow you into my life, here is what is going on: I'm a father of...